This thread, I start for two reasons:
1. Im not the only one who suffers the loss of loved ones.
2. Im not the only one who needs an outlet.
This past two years, Ive lost a grandfather, a pet of 20 years, a grandmother.... and those had their own repercussions of worry, stress over my mothers pain and sadness as she buried her parents.. January 31st this year, I lost my dad to a massive heart attack at 62.
Mom and Dad 1973
1992
Thanksgiving 2016
Fathers Day 2016
This has been my... second (only to losing a son shortly after birth) difficult death Ive dealt with. I cant seem to get past it, thoughts consume me daily of who the next one is in my family.. waiting for the other shoe to drop, and why God has seen it necessary for me to endure such losses in such a short amount of time.. I cant seem to get over the last before the next is upon me. To say the least, Im overwhelmed.
My dad.. was my sounding wall. He always gave me the best advice and I always felt better when I was sad or stressed if I went to talk to him. He helped me through alot of despairing times in my life.... times that now seem so trivial compared to recent. I miss his voice, I miss his loving reassurance that I depended on. My brain says its grief, that itll pass with time... and my heart is broken because its fully aware of what has been lost.
My aunt, and I picked his stone out shortly after the funeral, its a beautiful stone, but I hate it at the same time... to see my dads name on it, is gut wrenching.
This thread wont be a popular one... but I know Im not the only one..