I used Novita RL44 Relays. Here's my quick and dirty schematic. Note the difference as you know for the Brake portion. I tapped into the wire harnesses to each set of rear tail lights, so I listed the pin numbers for the wires off those plugs. I'm running a 5 wire harness as it supplies 12v to the trailer for internal lighting. I have a Escapade Trailer that I pull.
If someone has the 'T' connectors (part numbers) or connectors/partnumbers to build a 'T' and where to get them to tap into the Slingshot harness that would make this even cleaner and easier as I couldn't locate them when I did mine.