@Rnj12 I'm so very sorry to see that this act of "hurt, pain, violence and betrayal" had to spill over to your SS and the V-Rod. I know these situations can be highly driven by emotions and often are a last ditch effort to try and hurt a person when they know a physical slap, name calling or anything else will not pull your strings and emotions/or get a rise as quickly as seeing your face when you see this type of damage. We men call this the IBC because we tend to go nuclear, unless we have matured and learned to act like a children's movie and sing the song "let it go"--the anger of payback that is. You did the right thing. It does no good for you to spend a night in jail for reacting. File the police report, resting order, file the insurance paperwork, drink lots of coffee or beverage of your choice, and move forward if that is what you and her desire.
I never could understand why women would do this until the "offender" explained it to me. So much evil in a 5'1" lady with an amazing intellect..I was lucky to escape with my life lol So, I tucked the tail and ran.