Thanks Tom... niece's wedding is still a go, that is on the 6th. Going to look at skipping out on reception, leaving after wedding ( I think it's around 2-3 pm), that would get us in late Sat night, stay Sun, then leave on Monday. Or... come in on Thursday, leave Sat, miss wedding, catch reception. I think I can sell one of those options to Rho...
Larry this is Bu11sh1t. If you're going to miss the reception you might as well miss the wedding. Just make sure the wedding present gets there. They won't know you're not there. Just my thoughts and that's know Bu11sh1t